4th of July

My grandmother's birthday is July 4. Should I drive the three and a half hours and go?

To go:

She's turning 85, and is not especially robust. I should take every opportunity to see her.

I am normally busy on the 4th, so I'm not usually able to go.

My summer is going to be busy, so I'm not sure when I'll be able to go later.

To not go:

I've had three weekends in a row of traveling or houseguests, and I would really like a weekend at home!

I was just there two weeks ago.

It's not a three day weekend since the 4th is a Saturday, so I don't feel like it's an extra special road trip weekend.

Grandma doesn't want a big deal made, and most other relatives probably won't come.

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